01 Our Story

One date. Two dates. Then a brief intermission.

2012 โ€” The Black Castle

2012

The Black Castle

April 2012. A first date at the Black Castle in Bristol. The sort of night that ends up written down in a diary and then left in a loft for the next eighteen years. It's still up there, apparently.

2012 โ€” A Brief Intermission

2012

A Brief Intermission

Two dates in, Hayley dumped him. Officially. Confidently. Completely. Paul, to his enormous credit, took the long view โ€” and waited. Best decision either of them never made on purpose.

2018 โ€” Round Two, Properly

2018

Round Two, Properly

Marquees, weddings that weren't theirs, cocktails the colour of swimming pools, and a shared refusal to take a single thing too seriously. Somewhere in all of it, this quietly became the real thing.

2025 โ€” Top of the Rock

2025

Top of the Rock

8th December 2025. Seventy floors above Manhattan, with the whole of New York glittering behind them, Paul asked. Thirteen years after being dumped after two dates, he got his answer. She said yes.

2030 โ€” Ashton Court

2030

Ashton Court

And so to 2030. Bristol stone, long tables, a very late dance floor, and everyone they love in one room. Eighteen years in the making. Worth the wait, and worth the diary entry.

The Inner Circle

For those who were there for the whole thing. What was the name of the pub where Hayley and Paul had their first date in April 2012?